A Father, a Hero
A father is his children's hero—until he's not. The question isn't whether they turn out like him, but whether he shows them what a principled path looks like so they can forge their own.
Notes on discipline and execution, among other things.
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A father is his children's hero—until he's not. The question isn't whether they turn out like him, but whether he shows them what a principled path looks like so they can forge their own.
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