Jaime Calaf

Notes on discipline and execution, among other things.

execution

Breaking the Responsiveness Trap

The expectation of instant responsiveness—to emails, texts, calls—has turned most of us into human automatons. The day I replaced my Apple Watch with a mechanical watch, I started breaking that rule. Gradually, deliberately, I reclaimed the mental bandwidth to do actual work.

fatherhood

A Walk Around the Block

A morning walk with my kids became a lesson in presence. Last year, I wouldn't have had the patience for this. Cutting social media distractions gave me back the attention my children deserve.

Inter Alia

Searching for Sanctaphrax

Sanctaphrax is the fictional floating city-state in The Edge Chronicles—a fantasy series where it serves as the seat of knowledge and academia. For me, writing is a constant search for Sanctaphrax.

The Problem Solver's Trap

You know you're a problem solver when your bosses stop going to your peers and make you the de facto person for almost everything. This is a two-edged sword—and why organizational fit matters more than you think.

business

AI Didn't Take Your Job—Bad Business Did

The next time an expert tells you AI is taking all the jobs, remember this: it's far more likely the economy is struggling and businesses are bleeding out. We'd all rather be told it's about technological advancement than face the reality of poor management and a stagnant economy.

execution

Let the Work Sell Itself

After watching marketing experts explain the latest growth techniques, I realized I'd rather keep writing genuinely and working on my craft. Consistency trumps any gimmick. If you're patient, you may build a network of peers who truly value your work because they identify with it.

execution

Operate Like a Submarine

Most advice says to announce your goals for accountability. That's wrong. The world doesn't care, envy is real, and sharing invites unnecessary emotional risk. Operate like a submarine—stay below the surface and let results speak later.

fatherhood

A Father, a Hero

A father is his children's hero—until he's not. The question isn't whether they turn out like him, but whether he shows them what a principled path looks like so they can forge their own.

Inter Alia

The Friction Problem

Modern platforms reward whatever is most clickable, not whatever is most true. Long-form reading introduces friction that makes quackery harder to sustain.

business

Betting on the Wrong Horse

Executives who can't admit hiring mistakes keep betting on toxic talent, sending a clear message: ego matters more than performance.

Inter Alia

When You Jump

When you take the leap most won't, even those closest to you will resist. Not because you'll fail—because they fear they would.

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